Funny how certain e-mails arrive, and I stop all other activities I’ve been engaged in….
One of my California pals sent me one this morning that involved her planning for her Christmas catalogue!!! I have always wanted to create something to sell in a catalogue that reminds people to pay attention…to each other & put their cell phones away & take a time out to BE…smell the roses, pay it forward, ask for help, and to really listen to another...
Another e-mail video arrived showing how kids and even grown-ups react when they receive a puppy as a gift; all girls started to cry with happiness and joy…the one young boy just fell down and started giggling, while holding his wee bull dog…!!!
AND then an article I’ve been saving, suddenly appeared on the top of a certain stack …”To build a better human, we must start with the ears” written by a classics professor Tom A. Palaima, at the University of Texas …who wrote that “True attentive listening is a vanishing skill and underdeveloped talent. We all want to be heard.”
YES, we do.
I had to find some Research about the impact of technology on small children…Here it is:
Using a smartphone or iPad to pacify a toddler may impede their ability to learn self-regulation, according to researchers.
In a commentary for the journal Pediatrics, researchers at Boston University School of Medicine reviewed available types of interactive media and raised “important questions regarding their use as educational tools”, according to a news release.
The researchers said that though the adverse effects of television and video on very small children was well understood, society’s understanding of the impact of mobile devices on the pre-school brain has been outpaced by how much children are already using them.
The researchers warned that using a tablet or smartphone to divert a child’s attention could be detrimental to “their social-emotional development”.
“If these devices become the predominant method to calm and distract young children, will they be able to develop their own internal mechanisms of self-regulation?” the scientists asked.
Jenny Radesky, clinical instructor in developmental-behavioural pediatrics atBoston University School of Medicine, published her team’s findings. She urged parents to increase “direct human to human interaction” with their offspring.
Radesky encouraged more “unplugged” family interaction in general and suggested young children may benefit from “a designated family hour” of quality time spent with relatives – without any television and mobile devices being involved.
Radesky questioned whether the use of smartphones and tablets could interfere with the ability to develop empathy and problem-solving skills and elements of social interaction that are typically learned during unstructured play and communication with peers.
Food for thoughts today.